Pentecost
19 (Mark 10:2-16)
“From
the beginning of Creation…”
God designed human beings to grow and transform
through love. The operating principle of love is choice. The outward and
visible expression of love is relationship. The inner and spiritual resource
for love is the indwelling presence of God the Holy Spirit.
In the beginning, God gave our species one commandment,
one governing principle, to activate choice. That commandment had a law, a
warning, and a promise. The Law was: don’t eat the fruit of the tree of
knowledge. The problem was not knowledge. God always wanted us to grow in
knowledge. The problem was intent. The problem is how we seek knowledge not
that we seek knowledge.
The warning is: if you seek knowledge apart from you
relationship with God, you will separate from the very source of light, and
life and love. You will enter into a way of existence that ends in death.
The promise is love. If you remain faithful and
loyal you will live. You will indeed live forever in a world designed for your
joy and you delight. You will live in union with the very source of life. You
will live into the infinite possibilities of eternal love.
In order to tempt our first parents, Satan took the
guise of one of God’s amazing and beautiful creations. He used the glittering
beauty and subtly of the serpent to beguile, to confuse and tempt our first
parents. There is a principle to be learned here. Temptation can be very subtle
and enticing.
Since our species choose to separate from God, the
laws of God and the way of love make little sense to us. We are seduced by
knowledge acquired in separation from God. We are enticed by promises of power,
dominance and control.
The Law of Marriage is one such divine principle
most people most of the time refuse to accept. How do we know that most people
most of the time reject the Law of Marriage? There are three primary sources of
knowledge available to us. They are Scripture, history and personal experience.
Jesus’ teaching on marriage unfolds in a context.
The first aspect of that context is original separation. All people actively
participate in original separation from God.
The second context is one of the results of Original
Separation. That is the context of law. What God designed as a fundamental
principle of creation, people over the centuries have changed into an external
law.
The third context emerges from the way people react
to law. We look for the loophole. We look for the loophole because we do not
embody the principle of feel the principle as offering us a blessing. We seek
to maintain our sense of righteousness under the Law and at the same time
subvert the Law through the loophole.
The Pharisees specialized in loophole righteousness.
They redefined divine principle as rigid, inflexible uncompromising law. They
asserted their own individual righteousness in their ability to keep the law.
And, they wove into the law certain self-serving loopholes that allowed them to
subvert the law and still maintain their righteousness.
Curiously enough, they come to Jesus with a
question. A question is the beginning of wisdom. The disciples very seldom
asked questions. They feared the answers. They feared that Jesus would teach
something new or something different.
The Pharisees asked questions to justify themselves
and to trap Jesus. But, at least they asked.
On the subject of marriage, the Pharisees want Jesus
to speak on divorce. They suspect he will not uphold the law of divorce. As
with the question on paying taxes, they reason that if he upholds the law he
will simply reinforce the religious system or rewards and punishments they administer.
If he rejects the law, well, then they can claim he is a false prophet and is soft
on sin.
I suspect, some of the Pharisees also genuinely
wanted some fresh insights into the matter. Divorce created many problems in
society. A man could divorce his wife but a wife could not divorce her husband.
Husbands controlled the money and the property in a family. A divorced woman
had only two choices for survival. One was to return to her parents or
surviving relatives and hope they would take her back into their home. More often
than not, the family would not take her back. The only other option was to
become a homeless beggar.
The Pharisees were not monsters. They were lost.
They were specifically lost in a law based religion that saw life in the
categories of rewards and punishments, of righteous and unrighteous, of the
just and of the sinners.
Jesus appeals to the first principles of Creation to
answer their question about marriage and divorce. His answer is biblical and
life affirming. It also is impossible to translate into civil law. If you
really want to write divine principles into civil law this is the standard.
Jesus knew very well this standard was good, holy
and life affirming. He also knew that a species lost in separation from God
would not and could not accept this standard, or indeed any divinely designed
standard.
The principles of God for human behavior and
interpersonal relationships can only make sense in a real choice to enter into
a personal relationship with God in Jesus Christ. The choice to follow these
principles can only come as we make the next choice.
That next choice is what theologians call
sanctification. It is the choice we make every day to pray the prayer that
defined Jesus’ life. That prayer is: Heavenly Father, not my will but Thy will
be done. That prayer only makes sense in the context of a personal relationship
with Jesus Christ. That prayer manifests a slow, steady and unfolding
conversion of our thoughts, desires and choices.
The divine design for marriage is clear, explicit
and impossible for the lost to accept. It is the image of God’s own relationship
to humanity. It is the best and highest good God invites us to embrace. The
best defense of Biblical marriage is not in law courts, legislation or civil
disobedience. The best defense of Biblical marriage is to embrace, practice and
delight in the sacramental grace of marriage.
Jesus once said: “let your light so shine.” How the
people of God live our lives and manifest the grace of God in our words, deeds
and marriages will proclaim the goodness of God and the gift of God more
effectively in the Plan of Creation Jesus teaches us in this passage
Jesus did not answer the question about marriage and
divorce from the context of either religious or civil law..
Jesus answers the question of marriage and divorce
with a reminder of the original blessing the Father designed into creation by
the power and presence of the Holy Spirit.